I can understand that a woman gains a lot of weight when they're pregnant and it takes some time to get rid of it, and I sympathize with that.
But I have to tell you that I find it hard to take pity on a women who says "I put on all this weight when I was pregnant with the baby and I CANNOT lose it!" and her "baby" is next to her. Only he's 6'2" and he's wearing a UCLA sweatshirt.